Frustrated female
Dear Lynsey,
I recently met a new guy I am interested in, and he has expressed interest in dating me. We have so much in common and we get along great, but there is something that bothers me ... I think he might be a player. We are friends on Facebook and he keeps trying to add my attractive female friends as his friends on Facebook. My friends (of course) are very loyal to me and contacted me immediately to let me know that I need to watch out for this guy, because he is a “slime ball.” When I confronted him he acted like I was the one with the problem. I don’t feel I have a problem, but I just wanted your insight. Am I being too sensitive?
Sincerely,
Annoyed About Men
Dear Annoyed About Men,
In the beginning of a relationship, most people try to put their best foot forward. Your email did not mention whether or not you have spent much time with this person, but it sounds as though things were off to a positive start until the friend issue.
First of all, Facebook is not a dating site such as match.com. Adding your hot Facebook female friends is similar to picking up on them, which is classless behavior. Unless he already knows your friends, adding them is a red flag.
You are very fortunate to have such loyal friends looking out for you. If he is already exhibiting this sort of behavior in the beginning, it will only get worse as the relationship progresses. Better that you find this out now rather than down the road. Cut your losses and show this guy the door, because he is definitely not worth your time.
Sincerely,
Lynsey Diosa
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